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The factors exerting pressure on young, impressionable minds are manifold: doctored images of 'perfect' young women online, intrusive social media, a fashion industry that still celebrates the waif and even blogs advising teenage girls on how to under-eat.
One way of tackling problems with body image centres around attitudes to diet and exercise. In the context of teenage girls, however, food in itself has become a contentious subject. "There is a fear around it because we have all lived through it," says Laura Vann, a Pilates instructor who is setting up health and wellbeing workshops with her sister, Emma Wildgoose, a nutritional advisor. "No one has a problem with their child learning maths, but when it comes to learning about food, it can be very emotive."
'Fundamental life skill'
|Emma (L) and Laura (R) want|
to help girls feel more confident
Laura and Emma have set up their workshops because they believe that too many schools are failing to educate children about nutrition and the art of cooking. "It's a fundamental life skill and I don't believe we are focusing enough on it," says Emma. Both of them find the idea of calorie-counting not only abhorrent but also an outdated mindset. Their workshops are geared around eating healthy, unprocessed food and teaching girls about posture, building core muscles and relaxation techniques.
"It all goes back to when I was that age myself and not feeling good enough, in terms of my body image," says Laura. "We are trying to help young girls feel more confident in their bodies. Instead of the focus being on small, it is on being strong."
Though the child psychologist Professor Tanya Byron advises parents to shift children's belief system while they are still young so that they celebrate what the body can do rather than the way it looks, not all parents are keen to intervene. The fear is that any pre-emptive action will turn body image into an issue before it actually is. Laura believes, however, that sowing a seed at an early age can have benefits. "If someone got to me aged 12 and told me that I could eat good food, I would have spent the next 25 years enjoying my food and what it feels like to be strong and physically able. We were led to believe it doesn't matter if you feel weak and unhappy as long as you are thin."
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The wrong message
Emma, who owns the business Eat Real Food, often gets frustrated with fitness trainers in the public eye who enforce the wrong messages about food by advising clients to restrict their calories. "All I want to talk about is if your food contains the right nutrients and how best to fill the body with nutrients. It is nothing to do with your weight... This message bypassed me [as a teenager]. I was taught it, but it didn't go in because we grew up in a low-fat culture."
Parents too can inadvertently trip up! My son will often ask me what's for pudding and when I say "fruit", he will answer, "But what's for unhealthy pudding?" When I discussed this with Emma, I realised that I used to often reward him with a sweet after his supper if he ate his vegetables, an incentive system that only reinforced confectionary as the top food.
She's absolutely right and I don't think Emma would disagree with her sentiments. The purpose of Emma's work is to build on that foundation and empower girls to make the right food choices as they get older, while also emphasising that they don't have to be healthy 100% of the time. The workshops that the sisters run place a premium on having fun whilst also learning how to take care of the body, whether that be making nutrient-rich chocolate brownies or turning Pilates positions into animal shapes.
So next time my daughter worries about her height, I'll be telling her to celebrate her strength and posture. As Laura points out, if your body is strong, you can carry your own suitcase! A far better aspiration than strutting down a catwalk in high heels.
Emma and Laura run their "Just Be" workshops in Henley-on-Thames. Parents are asked to fill out questionnaires beforehand and any girls with serious issues around food or potential eating disorders are advised to seek medical help rather then enrol on a workshop.
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